A Guide to Self Gifting This Valentines

Hey there ladies, this is the post you’ve been waiting for. Valentines is the perfect time to spoil those you love, but don’t forget to shower yourself with affection and frivolity. So how do you get what you really want this Valentines? Buy it yourself. Duh. Whether you’re single and ready to mingle or you are happily loved up, I’m saying there’s no better time to self-gift. That over-priced lingerie that’s still in your Net-A-Porter shopping cart, that huge clothing haul you’ve been dreaming of, those silky pjs you’ve been lusting after for the best part of a year. I’m a firm believer in not putting your happiness in anyone else’s hands and let’s face it, a cracking gift will make it a lot easier to accept that ill-fitting underwear, in a colour or style that you would never choose that your other half undoubtedly has up his sleeve. This post is like a little nudge towards those items that your heart desires. Click that check out button, it’s time to treat yourself. Unsure what to buy? Well, here are 10 things that are at the top of my list should you be your own Valentine this year.

As someone who hints on epic proportions on the run up to Valentines, it’s safe to say that expectation is high in our household. However, self-gifting is one way to avoid total disappointment on V day and a reminder that no one holds the key to your happiness, you’ve been holding it all along.   1) That designer bag you need need need. Of course, it’s the sparkly Prada one. I’m justifying this purchase as an incentive to go on more dates this year! February is the perfect time to invest in a new designer bag to see you through the spring and summer. I have my eye on this number. Permission to live your best life is granted. 2) The Vintage Jewellery you have been lusting after since the dawn of time. 3) Mach and Mach shoes are the ultimate luxury and this design would make the perfect addition to your dressing table. 5) When was the last time you showed your underwear drawer some love? New lingerie is always a treat. These stunning Coco De Mer set will make you feel gorgeous even if you are the only one who ever sees it. 6) Give your perfume collection an upgrade with this insta-worthy bottle from Penhaligons. 7) New year, new phone case right? 8) That coveted piece that you see on every blogger. Add it to your capsule wardrobe. For me, it’s this Bella Freud jumper. 9) The posh chocolates that you need in your life. 10) Kissable lips are forever yours thanks to Lancome and this uber-glam lipstick.  

How will you celebrate yourself this Valentines? *manifests red roses* Pop open your favourite champagne, cook yourself an epic breakfast and enjoy it in bed with your guilty pleasure on Netflix, take yourself out for dinner, take yourself off to a spa or grab a single friend and make their day by celebrating together.